In the era of influencer culture, relationships aren’t just personal—they’re public. YouTube has gifted us some of the most iconic, heartwarming couples, but it’s also given us messy, drama-filled breakups. The girlfriends of YouTube stars are often thrust into the spotlight and face an audience that can either adore them or harshly criticize them. So, what makes some of these women loved and others hated? Is it personality, drama, or just plain bad luck?
In this post, we’re breaking down the most loved and hated YouTube girlfriends, focusing on why they’re adored or hated, and what Gen Z has to say about them. Let’s dive into the YouTube girlfriend power rankings!
Most Loved YouTube Girlfriends ❤️
These ladies have captured the hearts of YouTube’s audience with charm, authenticity, and relatability. From sharing their everyday life to navigating public breakups gracefully, they’ve won a loyal fanbase. Let’s see why these YouTube girlfriends are fan favorites!
1. Kristen McAtee
Kristen McAtee made a name for herself as the girlfriend of YouTuber and Vlog Squad member Scotty Sire. Right from the start, Kristen’s quirky and relatable personality connected with fans. Even after her breakup with Scotty, she maintained her audience, proving that her appeal wasn’t tied to their relationship. Kristen’s ability to stay calm, drama-free, and true to herself is what makes her stand out in a world where some influencers seem to chase drama for clout.
Why She’s Loved:
- Authentic and relatable: Kristen never seemed to chase fame or drama, and fans appreciate that.
- Post-breakup maturity: Even after breaking up with Scotty, there was no messy online drama, just mutual respect.
- Humor and chill vibes: She didn’t take herself too seriously, which made her approachable and funny.
“Kristen is such a vibe! I love how she stayed herself throughout everything. It feels like she’s that friend you’d always want to hang out with.” — @FanGirlOfTheVlogSquad
2. Natalie Mariduena
Natalie Mariduena, better known as Natalie Noel, is the longtime friend and assistant of YouTube megastar David Dobrik. Fans have always adored Natalie for her grounded, girl-next-door vibe. She wasn’t just a YouTube personality—she played a crucial role in the Vlog Squad and was often the calm presence amid all the craziness. Over the years, rumors of her and David dating fueled even more interest in her life. While they never confirmed a romantic relationship, many fans shipped them hard. Her authenticity, loyalty to David, and natural charm made her a fan favorite.
Why She’s Loved:
- Loyal and reliable: Natalie stuck by David’s side through thick and thin, helping him manage his career.
- Natural beauty and effortless charm: She wasn’t about flashy gimmicks or manufactured personality. Fans loved her for being herself.
- “Shipped” by fans: Her dynamic with David kept everyone guessing and rooting for them.
“Natalie is honestly the queen of being laid-back but still killing it. She’s the kind of person you could trust with your life. Totally stan-worthy.” — @NatalieFan2020
3. Safiya Nygaard
Safiya Nygaard is one of those rare YouTubers who earned fan love not just for being someone’s girlfriend, but for her individual personality and creativity. Initially a member of BuzzFeed’s Ladylike, Safiya started dating Tyler Williams, and the two eventually began sharing their relationship online. Fans love Safiya for her relatable, slightly nerdy vibe, and her experimental content (hello, weird fashion and makeup videos!). She’s consistently been praised for her down-to-earth and quirky personality.
Why She’s Loved:
- Creative and independent: Safiya’s unique content made her a star in her own right.
- Relatable humor: Her “awkward-but-cool” persona resonates with viewers.
- Supportive relationship: Her bond with Tyler feels like a genuine partnership without the drama.
“Safiya is literally goals. She’s creative, smart, and just a little weird—in the best way. Plus, her relationship with Tyler is so pure and healthy. Love them!” — @FanOfQuirkyContent
4. Marzia Kjellberg
For years, Marzia Kjellberg (formerly known as Marzia Bisognin) was known as the girlfriend (and now wife) of PewDiePie, one of YouTube’s biggest creators. Marzia built her own successful YouTube channel focused on lifestyle, fashion, and DIY, but she decided to step away from the platform in 2018. Despite no longer being an active YouTuber, Marzia remains adored by fans for her sweet nature, creative spirit, and her iconic relationship with PewDiePie.
Why She’s Loved:
- Wholesome and sweet: Marzia’s kind, soft-spoken nature won fans over early on.
- Creative and stylish: Even though she left YouTube, her content was always super aesthetic and well-loved.
- Relationship goals: Her love story with PewDiePie is YouTube history.
“Marzia is a whole mood—so wholesome, so sweet. She was one of the few that stayed out of drama. Her and Felix are literally YouTube royalty.” — @MarziaStan
Most Hated YouTube Girlfriends 💔
Not everyone gets the fan treatment. Some YouTube girlfriends find themselves caught up in drama, scandals, or even just the intense scrutiny of an online audience. While some hate might be unfair, it’s undeniable that these women have found themselves on the wrong side of the fanbase.
1. Alissa Violet
Alissa Violet’s rise to YouTube fame came through her relationship with Jake Paul and her involvement in the Team 10 house. Their breakup was highly publicized, with both sides accusing each other of cheating and manipulation. Alissa didn’t hold back when exposing Jake’s toxic behavior, but her actions also stirred up drama that left fans divided. While some praised her for standing up for herself, others accused her of being just as messy as Jake.
Why She’s Hated:
- Drama magnet: Alissa was constantly involved in messy breakups and Twitter feuds.
- Accusations of cheating: Her split from Jake Paul was full of he-said, she-said drama.
- Public feuds: Alissa clapped back at Jake and other influencers, which sometimes came across as petty.
“Alissa Violet is just a walking drama fest. I get that Jake was toxic, but airing it out online was too much. It felt like high school.” — @TeamJake4Life
2. Adept (Sammy)
Adept became known for her relationship with xQc, one of Twitch and YouTube’s biggest streamers. What started as a relatively private relationship turned into a full-blown public spectacle when the couple split. The drama reached its peak when Adept and xQc’s breakup went viral, with legal battles and personal accusations flying across social media. The whole situation became so messy that fans were quick to turn against her, seeing her as part of the problem.
Why She’s Hated:
- Messy public breakup: Adept and xQc’s split wasn’t just private—it exploded across the internet.
- Legal drama: Their post-breakup legal battles left a sour taste for many fans.
- Accusations and blame: Both sides threw shade, but many fans blamed Adept for escalating the drama.
“The whole xQc-Adept drama was exhausting. She was just always stirring the pot. Not a fan.” — @TwitchFan69
3. Laura Lee
Laura Lee, a beauty YouTuber, faced massive backlash in 2018 when old racist tweets resurfaced. What made it worse was her poorly received apology video, where fans accused her of being insincere and only apologizing to save her career. While Laura has since tried to rebuild her reputation, many fans still haven’t forgiven her, making her one of the most disliked figures in the beauty YouTube space.
Why She’s Hated:
- Past racist tweets: Her old tweets shocked and disappointed her fanbase.
- Cringey apology video: The crying and scripted apology felt fake to a lot of fans.
- Struggles to recover: Despite attempts at redemption, Laura still faces backlash.
“Laura Lee’s apology was one of the worst YouTube apologies ever. It felt so fake. I don’t know how she thought that would help.” — @BeautyDramaWatch
Conclusion: Love and Hate in the YouTube World
In the end, being a YouTube girlfriend is no easy task. From navigating intense public scrutiny to keeping their relationships intact under the spotlight, these women have to deal with it all. While some have become beloved icons, others have struggled to escape the drama. Love them or hate them, YouTube girlfriends play a huge role in shaping the influencer scene, and they’re here to stay.
Who’s your favorite YouTube girlfriend? Let us know in the comments!
